HAPPINESS By Paul Vlachos

 

 

Happiness is a state of mind linked with a positive emotion.  Can being happy change anything in your life?  Absolutely!  It changes everything.

Happiness is contagious; it spreads like wildfire.  One great effect of happiness is the health benefits.  We all know how hard it is to be happy when you are sick or in pain.   Yet, that is when we need it the most.  Yes, folks, happiness will heal you, and our world, one smile at a time.

Memories can make us happy when we recall them.  What makes us happy now will be different after a catastrophe.  Yes, once our comfort zone has been removed, and we are in real trouble, happiness could be surviving long enough to be rescued.  Happiness could be finding another human after a disaster, just to talk to and make sure you’re not dreaming, but also to help each other survive.  Imagine being so thirsty you can’t open your mouth and your tongue is drying in place. Along comes someone with clean water, no matter whom that person is, you will welcome them with open arms, and an open heart.  Happiness will emerge from this encounter.

Imagine if we were able to put our differences aside during the steady normal times the way we do after a catastrophe.  Happiness out of survival is a powerful example for us to reflect.  In doing so we challenge ourselves to find compassion in all people, places, and things, then turn it into happiness.

We all have each other to count on during a disaster.  Let’s act that way without one.  Happiness will heal all of us and also our world.  If we all share what we have, our world will change.  There will be no need to buy a rake if your neighbor has one.  The same is true for all we have.  Instead of living as separate individual units, we would be one collective body.  The word waste would never be mentioned.  We as a species were never meant to live separate, each to its own.  One of the most important things we share is food and shelter.  Grassroots gardening can be expanded to include everyone.  Let’s give back ownership of our world to the community.  This should be the only battle we engage in as a country.  We have all we need to begin this process.  With open hearts and minds, we together can accomplish anything.  At least sharing love with one another.

Once we take the first steps, we would care for one another.  This would go beyond anything you can imagine.  No one would ever be left alone unless they wanted to be.  We would rely on each other to lift one another up and be accountable for getting each other healthy, productive, and loving.  Love has the ability to cure all ailments.

For so long now, we have been writing down our recommendations, contracts, agreements, and stipulations so everyone knows what belongs to whom.  Let’s forget the paperwork and start being accountable to one another regardless of what the paper says.  No one will ever be punished for helping another.  Once you begin to share even one thing with another, a hundred will share back with you.

It’s time we take our country back from the corporations who have guided us to be like this.  As long as we need them, the corporations will dictate the rules of our life.  Once we show them that they need us, we can dictate the rules of their actions.

You may think sharing with your neighbor will not make much of a difference, but it will when everyone gets on board.  We cannot continue to be a nation of separate individual units who all have to have one of everything that exists.  Since we are the most intelligent species on the planet, it’s a surprise to me how we have fallen into such a material existence.  It would be a lot easier if we could turn back the clock, and nip the greed syndrome in the butt when it began.  But since that is not possible, we must work with what we have.

Help one another and we change the world, with happiness, one act of kindness at a time.

The Express Newspaper October 29, 2015

Vincent “Jim” Bochetti – 91

MECHANICVILLE – Vincent “Jim” Bochetti, 91, lifelong resident of Mechanicville, died peacefully early Monday morning at Saratoga Center(Maplewood), after a long illness. Born in Mechanicville, February 14, 1924, he was the son of the late John and Anna Franco Bochetti and husband of the late Sophie Rajeski Bochetti.

A Mass of Christian Burial will be held on Thursday at 12PM at All Saints on the Hudson South Church, 121 No Main St., Mechanicville, NY 12118. Calling hours at the church prior to Mass from 10 – 11:30AM. Burial in St. Paul’s Cemetery, Mechanicville.

In lieu of flowers, remembrances may be made to the Saratoga Center, Patient Activity Fund, 149 Ballston Ave, Ballston Spa, NY 12020 in fond memory of Jim Bocchetti. Arrangements by the DeVito-Salvadore Funeral Home, Mechanicville.

To leave condolences and for directions visit www.devito-salvadorefh.com

 

Delores Jean (Hare) Raut

MECHANICVILLE - Delores Jean (Hare) Raut passed away peacefully on Monday, October 26, 2015 at the Saratoga Center for Rehabilitation and Skilled Nursing. She was 82.

Relatives and friends may call from 5-7pm on Thursday, October 29, 2015 at the Chase-Smith Family Funeral Homes, 729 Hudson Avenue, Stillwater. Services will continue on Saturday, October 31 with visiting from 10-11am at the Hartwell Funeral Home, 461 Route 281, Tully, NY. Funeral service will follow in the funeral home at 11am. Burial will be in the family plot in LaFayette Rural Cemetery.

In lieu of flowers, kindly consider donations to your favorite charity in loving memory of Delores Raut. Online remembrances may be made at www.chasesmithfamily.com

Awards and Achievements/Local College Students

SUNY Oneonta Recognizes 2015 Alumni of Distinction Honorees
ONEONTA, NY (10/16/2015)(readMedia)-- SUNY Oneonta recently recognized nearly 100 alumni during the 2015 Alumni of Distinction Presentation of Honors.

In 2014, the SUNY Oneonta Alumni Association established the Alumni of Distinction program to recognize graduates who have distinguished themselves through their careers, their service to their communities, and their commitment to SUNY Oneonta. The Alumni of Distinction Honor recognizes just a few of the thousands of alumni who have made significant contributions to society, and whose accomplishments, affiliations and careers have honored the legacy of excellence at the college.

The 2015 Alumni of Distinction honorees were recognized at a ceremony on Sept. 4, 2015. To view the full list of Alumni of Distinction honorees, visit www.oneontaalumni.com/alumniofdistinction.

The following area residents were named SUNY Oneonta Alumni of Distinction this year:

Robert Degnan of Mechanicville, NY, President/Chief Operating Officer/Board of Directors of Sysmenx America, Inc., and a 1979 graduate of SUNY Oneonta;

Michael Kopp of Stillwater, NY, Retired Co-Founder and Chief Operating Officer of Electronic Data Resources, and a 1987 graduate of SUNY Oneonta;

Katie O'Gorman honored for Academics

ONEONTA, NY (10/19/2015)(readMedia)-- Katie O'Gorman, a Sophomore Business Economics from Clifton Park, NY was selected as an All-American Scholar Athlete by the National Fastpitch Coaches Association (NFCA) for the 2014-15 academic year. There were a total of 5,493 softball players from across seven membership divisions who were honored including 1,018 student athletes from NCAA Division III.

O'Gorman had a huge offensive season in her second season with Oneonta. She hit .385 while slugging a team best .661. O'Gorman had 42 hits including 13 doubles, four triples and three home runs while driving in 23 runs and scoring 28 times.

The team finished with a 25-14 record overall. The Red Dragons were 12-6 in the SUNYAC and qualified for the conference tournament.

The 2015 season kicks off in Florida on Saturday, Mar. 5, 2016. Opponents and game times have yet to be determined.

 

Red Cross to Offer Free Smoke Alarms in Mechanicville

Red Cross to Offer Free Smoke Alarms in Mechanicville

Community partners uniting for citywide event on October 24

                                                                                       

ALBANY, NY (October 21, 2015) – The Clifton Park Halfmoon Emergency Corps and the Mechanicville Fire Department are teaming up with the American Red Cross in an effort to reduce fire-related deaths and injuries across the city of Mechanicville. On Saturday, October 24, teams of volunteers from all three partner organizations will join forces to deliver free smoke alarms and fire safety education to local residents through the Red Cross Home Fire Preparedness Campaign.

 “In its first year, the Home Fire Preparedness Campaign has saved 26 lives across the country,” said David Kunzelman, regional disaster officer for the American Red Cross Eastern New York Region. “We have seen very clearly that helping people prepare for fires can have lifesaving results. We’re excited to be able to reach even more families with this program through our partnership with the Mechanicville Fire Department and Clifton Park Halfmoon Emergency Corps.”

Joseph Santiago, Clifton Park Halfmoon Emergency Corps Executive Director added, “This is such an incredible opportunity to help educate and prepare a community for disaster prevention. We are thrilled to partner with the American Red Cross for this important effort.”

If Mechanicville residents are interested in arranging an appointment for a free smoke alarm install, they can call the Red Cross at (518) 694-5121.

Community members are also encouraged to join the Red Cross as volunteers for the Home Fire Preparedness Campaign. Volunteers can sign up to help install smoke alarms and teach families about fire safety at a single campaign event, like the one in Mechanicville on October 24, or on an ongoing basis in their local community. Anyone interested in volunteering should contact Disaster Preparedness Specialist Anne Parsons at (518) 694-5154 or email anne.parsons@redcross.org for additional information.

 

To learn more about the Red Cross Home Fire Preparedness Campaign, including how to request an in-home visit and free smoke alarm installation for your household, please visit www.redcross.org/eny/homefires.

Jack Connors Honored at Economic Summit

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MECHANICVILLE OCTOBER 15- "I'm proud of my father. He started our business on April 15, 1955 when he was 27 years old. There were no copiers, fax machines or email. He wrote his first policy to Matt Kiley from Stillwater and left a copy on the kitchen table," recounted Kevin Connors. Kevin spoke on behalf of his father Jack.

Read the entire article in the Oct. 22 issue.

Author Erika Holzer’s Local Roots – by Sandy McBride

Phyllis Tate grew up here in Mechanicville.  The daughter of prominent attorney Frank Tate and his wife, Phyllis, she was the third of four children. As a child, she liked to walk up the street to her dad’s law office in the Enzien block on the corner of Park Avenue and Main Street, where the two would discuss cases, debating the legality of both sides.  

Read the entire article in the Oct. 22 edition.